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ha i got your attention didn;t i??? well this is not about sex...

but it is really importent....

my husband wants a divorve...

i love my husband... we have 3 kids (1 12. 1 8 and 1 4) and he left me... he wants to take the kids with him...how do i male this as pianless as possible for both the kids and me... please!!! i really need the help right now!!!Sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?Did you try working it out first ?

Marriage counseling or something else ?

It will never be painless for the kids or you if you still love him.

Was there an issue of cheating or mistrust ?

It is always better to try your best to make things right.Sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
well the sex part def got my attention, you should figure out why he wants the kids, both of you have the right to them unless there is something else, get a lawyer!!!Sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?1st i'd be asking for an honest why. Why does he want a divorce? why does he want the kids. Why can't u work out the problem? Mose d's hapen over money or sex. Or should i say the lack of. well good sex anyway. So ask why.
didn't you ask this question once already. try to work out a comprimise with him or you will have to go to divorce court.Sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?I went through this! It is hard. First, never lie to the kids. Second, Never bash their dad (remember, they don't see his faults). and thirdly, you fight! |Do not let him take the kids, but allow him to see them when he wants. He is going to think that he has as much right to the children as you do, but he don't. Woman always have more rights. Tell him that you are keeping the children in your custody but he is welcome to see or take them whenever he wants. Then call "Legal Aid". They will file your divorce papers for free and their attorney will go to court on your behave. What ever decisions you make do not make them in anger or hurt feelings. Always think of what is in the best interest of the children and go from their. Good luck. Stay strong. Losing the "one you love" is really hard, but as long as you put the kids needs first you will feel better the long run. If you need help contact me. Be strong. Don't let hurt feelings cloud your better judgment.Sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
Make sure the kids know it is not there fault. If he doesn't want to work out the problems with you, let him go. You will be miserable fighting to keep him there, plus your children will feel it too. Move slowly and take one day at a time.
work it out with HIMSex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
I can relate to your situation.

It all evolves around why your husband wants a divorce.

If you really love him, it may sound crude and blunt, but it works, satisfy his every need.

Even is you are the second-fiddle, even if it means you have to sacrifice your dignity and pride. For the kids, for the sake of "i love my husband".

Don't give up for the sake of "we have 3 kids".

Don't give up your kids!!

Be strong and God Bless.
dont let him take the kids. I havent seen my daughter in three years and I have heard that he has left the country with her. men are evil vindictive bastards when they want to be. So the only way to control the amount of pain you feel is to be in control. If he wants to leave let him. it is still your family. Stand your ground and know that you are a strong and confident mother. You can raise them just fine without him. And dont forget that if he gets the kids he also gets you to pay support. Think things through and get a lawyer to help with the details.
Thats really hard to answer for you, the decision and outcome of ur problem has to be decided among you and your husband. Communication adn compromise is #1 work on that. Why does he want the kids? dont give up, joint custody will be best but first talk to one another w/o arguments. Good luck
well if your on the computer writing to get answers from strangers.. maybe its not that important to you. Go and talk to him and figure it all out!!!!
Why does he want to take the kids?
Get off the computer and go talk to your husband.
let him have 'em and adopt 3 other ones