Tuesday, February 21, 2012

How prevalent is premarital sex nowadays? What age do most teenagers engage in it?

Is it healthy? Are you in favor of premarital sex?How prevalent is premarital sex nowadays? What age do most teenagers engage in it?I lost my virginity at age 15, and knew several of my peers who were engaging in sex as well (we were all still in highschool, so this was obviously pre-marital). To find out a couple in their sopmore year of high school were engaging in intercourse was the norm.



My cousin got pregnant at age 14, and gave birth at age 15.



I think its almost (sadly) expected, and kids are having sex earlier and earlier....How prevalent is premarital sex nowadays? What age do most teenagers engage in it?
i believe in sex before marriage, i don't care what people say, i'm only doing it with one person. i lost my virginity at 16, i am now 18 %26amp;%26amp; it's with the same person [my boyfriend of 2 years], so what if people think we're too young to have sex, it's MY life.

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How prevalent is premarital sex nowadays? What age do most teenagers engage in it?Yes I am (as long as it's above 16). Not everyone gets married, so why deny them a sex life?
about 48% of teens have premarital sex. And 35% of those teens first lost their virginity at either 15 or 16. I am religious and don't favor it, but if kids do it, they should be responsible and not on here paniking about how they had sex and think their pregnant. Sex has proved to be healthy, it burns calories and helps attain the content feeling that many people (read parents) usually can't or won't get otherwise.How prevalent is premarital sex nowadays? What age do most teenagers engage in it?no im not and acctually, it is not as bad as you think. 70-80% of kids are not. you just hear the reports of the ones that do bacasue of the mediaHow prevalent is premarital sex nowadays? What age do most teenagers engage in it?
I don't have a problem with premaritial sex but the problem is more and more teens are having sex and it keeps getting younger and younger and it seems like the biggest problem is these older guys thinking it is ok to sleep with 15 year old girls.
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I have and continue to have premarital sex, as I am NOT married.



I am in my early twenty's and have been with my partner forever!! (or it seems like it!)

I lost my virginity when i was 16 and 1/2, but wished i had waited until i met my partner, a year later.



As i don't believe in marriage, strange i know, i do agree with premarital sex. BUT think that you need to be mature enough to engage in this activity safely
pretty common would think, not healty at a young age, yes i am in favor.
Many young adults live together without marriage in fact many couples of all ages do,. Marriage is not what it used to be with divorce rates so high. Most teens have had sex by 18, 16 and 17 is normal age to loose virginity but these days it is happening in middle schools.
I for one know that there are reason's why you shouldn't have sex before marriage. If you should conceive before marriage, you rob that child of blessings, and also yourself of blessings, and your future spouse of blessings.
Hey,



I not married but live with my man, so I am in favour of premarital sex, but it must be safe, consentual, and legal!

I dont think teens should be sleeping with people, as teens can be so fickle, and their version of love is so different from an adults (consider it like this, I LOVE my new shoes!!!!). Plus, they dont have the mental and emotional maturity to deal with the consequences of sex - diseases, pregnancy, emotions etc.

When I was in high school 3 of my peers killed themselves because the person they "loved" had slept with someone else, and they couldnt deal with it.



However, if your teen is going to do it anyway, instead of taking the hard lined approach, and them getting pregnant cause they didnt have access to birth control, Id encourage abstinance until a little older, but give information and ensure access to family planning etc...
It depends if the teenager is ready or not. If they think they are, emotionally and physically, and they know ALL the consequences, its okay.



But if the teenager isn't ready, and is worried and nervous, it wouldn't be a good time. I'm not really sure what is the actual 'age' is preferred, but personally I'm not in favour of it. Its better to be married and have someone to support you if you get pregnant than to struggle along before your married with a baby.



But I guess everyone has a different opinion... : )
sadly about 16 i would guess.

no i think its wrong.

but a lot of teenagers these days don't realize it now, but they will in the future, that they're making a huge mistake.
I am not in favor of pre marital sex. It is a sin and sex is for marriage only between a husband and his wife. I don't think it's healthy either. It's really prevalent in the West.
16 is the average age and you should test drive the car before you buy it.
All marriage is, is a way for girls to get rich by marrying say a footballer then in the divorce becomming a millionare.



Much like a 6 month hooker job.



or a expensive party and ceremony done as part of some sexsit homophobic cult to some how get the ok to what you can do just as easily withotu and have a lot more money for a deposit on a house, cut debts or have a holiday and nice stuff.





Being married does not stop domestic violence or spitting up just akes it more costly and stressful.



And often marriage is forced, arraged and if girls try and escape it are hnour killed.



or dones as a business arrangement.





many couples who live together as they love each other, love being together find each other very sexy and feel hurt being apart stay together longer then most marraiges especially celebrity ones.



ie my brother in law s brther and girlfeiend have been happily together for like 16 year or more since teenager.



Whilst look At brineys wedding.





So all in favour of premarital or or marital sex as long as the couple is happy and using birthcontrol unless trying for a baby.





As for sleeping around its not immoral. its just you were not lucky enough to find your soulmate age 15 and couple up happy.



What about all those who dont find a soulmate, or would have to wait till age 34 with 4 years till memopause when their body is saggy and nobody else wants tham?



Why live your life alone whilst everyone around is happy coupled arounf you or simply has a great sex life.?





No point waiting as then nobody will want to do all the things common for the years before.



Ie how many cinema back seats do you see full of 40 year olds making out on the back seat or 35 year olds snogging in the corner whilst you see teenagers doing that?



Around the world most teenagers start 14-17 ie mid teenage when homeows are strongests and teherfore so are emotions, feelings and needs.



Commonly 16-17 is the most common and healhty.





Whats the healthiest systm is for time to be taken to slowly develop emotionally.



Ie take a few years from first dates to full sex or at least a few months... getting used to dating, kissing, pettng ie feeling up.



Then semi sexaul stuff like hand, boob, finger, lick etc sex activites, getting used to being seen naked, your partners naked, being comfortable things and obnly moving on whrn both are readdy.





All the time practicing very safe sex with muiltple forms of contraception at the same time and morning after pills on standby with very high livels of sex ed.





Not just that but a hell of a lot of emotional support and advice from parents and friends which is why its important to start mid teens when you can go running homr to mum after you had a tiff, fight, got dumped o boy or girlfreind turns out to be a two timing jerk.



Also you learn an incredible amout anbout life, social skills, feelings the other sex, realtioship etc etc and confidence, self esteem, who you are etc from teenager sexaul realtioships which form the foundation of all furture realtioships.





Withotu thai its like trying to build a pyrmid upsdide down which always falls over and realtioships dont work and you are too shy and clueless and get messed around, and end up very lonley.





or if you wait say if a guy... till mid twenties.



happy parents?



actually it means the only people you can date then will be 16 as they are the only ones at your level and you have no hope of a successful realtioship with anyone adult your age as you are still at the how do you tell if a girl likes you phase.



They are past all that and ready for kids and marraige.





So if you sleep around or with one person in teens its like building a pyramid the right way foring a stable base fromwhich to form other realtioshiop, gainsing social skills needed to survive office politics and work and get confidence, get respect get self esteem, know and understand others etc etc.



And will help you marry if you wanrt.





if you dont you either end up a girl in abusive realtioships as despirate and will accept anything.



or if a guy you will only ever able to get with prostitutes as will never be up to the stnandards of experienced women.





Very sad and unhappy and lonly and may end up taking your own life.
well i lost my virginity 2 weeks before i turned 15







it doesnt matter as long as you know how to handle it





hmmmmmmmm

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