What happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?

What is a way to fix the problem of a husband who no longer desires sex? This frustrates the wife. The man feels bad but does not know how to get back the sexual feelings for his wife. What needs to be done?What happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?MAN YOGURT:



Well, according to this board, if it's the woman not wanting sex, the man is a selfish prick who just has to get used to jerking it in the shower for the next 50 years. "For better or for worse," remember? Geezus marriage is more than sex so quit riding her about it, nagging her constantly.



If it's the man who doesn't want sex, then it's all his fault and he better get his sh*t together or the woman will start screwing other men and he's an unfeeling sonofab*tch bastard who has no compassion for the needs of his wife





Is your real name Lewis Black? This is totally relevant, and you get a thumbs up my friend!What happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?
Well, according to this board, if it's the woman not wanting sex, the man is a selfish prick who just has to get used to jerking it in the shower for the next 50 years. "For better or for worse," remember? Geezus marriage is more than sex so quit riding her about it, nagging her constantly.



If it's the man who doesn't want sex, then it's all his fault and he better get his sh*t together or the woman will start screwing other men and he's an unfeeling sonofab*tch bastard who has no compassion for the needs of his wife.

What happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?Viagra and the other sex drugs, only work IF the man is already in a sexual mood. If he is not finding the woman sexually attractive, the pills will not work. I speak from experience.

A man and woman should be BEST FRIENDS BEFORE THEY GET MARRIED.. This helps getting past and over the problems, conflicts and other things that will come up in a relationship.

The man has to feel like the man in the relationship.

If he feels that she makes all the decisions and feels that she talks down to him as if he is dummy or a kid, he will see her as something other than that girl he fell in love with. Sex becomes rare.
ok I have seen both sides of this--I was once the one not desiring and I have a friend who's husband did not desire her....

For me--my ex was a VERY attractive guy--sweet---the whole works....BUT it had grown into a brother sister relationship and there was no changing it...it was sad because I loved him and still do--just not in a sexual way. It took forever for me to get out of that relationship because I felt so guilty :(

Now for my friend--she had gained weight and stopped taking care of herself--I mean she wasn't ugly---but she was a stay at home mom and looked it. He stopped having sex with her...and this hurt her very much....

now that she has lost weight he is all over her and she wants no part of him.

Personally I see both sides of this...if you love someone you will love them no matter what they look like---but if you love your man you will want to look your best for him....so

I would say...try to determine why the sex has stopped...is it because the relationship has changed? Or is it because someone just stopped looking appealing???

If it's looks it's easier to fix---do a makeover---lose some weight---try and be what you were....if the relationship has changed you can try therapy--but it's very tough changing that once it happens...

good luckWhat happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?There is this stupid stigma that surrounds men.... a stigma that suggests they are supposed to be ready at all times and no matter what age. Reality is that we all suffer problems throughout our lives, both mentally and physically... or both. What needs to happen is some medical intervention... just get him to talk to a doctor... and don't make him feel like crap because that isn't going to help anyone. Millions and millions and millions of men worldwide suffer from sexual problems, just as millions of women suffer from sexual problems. Show some support and work together for a resolution.What happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?
I would love to know the answer to this question also.

I am not married but am in a relationship of 2 years, and I do not desire my partner at all. It is so sad.

I love him, but he just doesn't "turn my knob"



What the hell do I do?



I am going to Star this question.
often a woman will not desire sex cause her husband isnt satisfying her, but if you are the woman and you still want it then his skills probably arent the problem. He should visit his doctor and ask for a solutionWhat happens when one person in a marriage no longer desires sex?
Marriage counselling is a great start. There is a problem somewhere in the marriage which needs to be delt with. Or go to an adult shop and find something which might spark the candle again
There is something diverting his sexual desires whether it is porn, another person, anger, depression, or guilt.



Left unresolved, your marriage will disintegrate.
Viagra...spark things up. Get out of your routine. Get a hotel room. Buy some naughty toys/lingerie. Buy a nice bottle of wine, reconnect.



Check this book out, The Guide to Getting it On. It's taught me a lot!
maybe he doesn't desire sex from his wife anymore,simply because he is getting it somewhere else.For him to give it to her,he needs to feel her again,which seems to be the problem.He's no longer feeling her
Learn to go without.
his hormones could be off maybe you need to see doc