How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?

My boyfriend wants me to initiate sex, I feel pretty depressed that I am bad at it.

Any tips will be great, just please make them clean suggestions.How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?Well, if you really want to make him happen, I don't think "clean" should be the way you approach it. If you start making out, instead of putting your hands on his head, or back, or wherever you usually put them, start rubbing his package, or better yet just start undoing his pants. Try to be as dirty as possible, and you will really turn him on. Anyways, hope things go alright, and have fun!How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?
well, the question here is: do YOU want to have sex? :/ don't feel pressured either, that's what can make you feel like you are bad at it :/ get me? some personal tips:



-girl, be confident in your skin, show your true self, don't try to be someone you are not =)



-just because you can't have great 'sex' or be 'wild', doesn't mean you can't make lovely love =)



-don't think it's all about just sex, it's the love that you feel and how you express it...and that's what makes it all beautiful =)



-tell him sweet things, let him know how you feel during it with soft kisses, even the way a kiss is given can change everything =)



-if you want, play a little first, try to relax...remember to always be yourself and who you are =) the making love part will come when it's ready, don't force it, it'll come on it's own =)



good luck girly =)

wish you the best of luck =)How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?What better way to become better by having your boyfriend teach you ?

I think he will be ahppy that you want to satisfy him , and he might even think its cute that he has to show you,

opposed to soeone who is whipping moves like a porn star

its shows you dont get around and that youre not slutty so he cant expect you to be good at it so soon

and by him showing you

it will be what he would like you to do meaning it will keep him happy every time.

good luck (:
well just invite him over to watcha movie or something when no one is home, then get close to him and cuddle

and just do cute little things like start kissing his hand or his neck then eventually start making out..

keep things light and cute dont try to be all sext and fiesty if that hasnt worked for you before.

when you start to feel like its time whisper sexy things to him like "i want you" or things like that to get him excited, then touch his body, and well.. you know where that leads to ;)



so basically you should start off slow and build up because it will be a little bit of a tease for him to get him excited, but also by going slowly you can get more comfortable with it :)

hope it helped! xoDHow can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?I can definitely relate. I use to be that way a few years ago. You just feel uncomfortable %26amp; slutty doing that, right ? Well, I did. You just have to think, he is really going to love this, so turn to him %26amp; start kissing his neck %26amp; go from there. Your boyfriend needs to feel like you want to do it also, so initiating will make him feel better. I wonder how detailed people can be on Yahoo Answers... haha.How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?
take him by surprise. be aggressive...act like you are dying for it. undress him, make him undress you. start out with a bj. then go for it. and during it, make noises and act like you are enjoying it even if you are not.
@ Marilyn: ok first of all..if sex is such a "sin" then why does it talk about it in the bible? it isn't dirty nor a sin its beautiful and should be with someone you love.





Dnt listen to people like this. butt start off slow and build it up :)How can I initiate sex with my boyfriend?
who cares what he wants? its your one and only body.

it is fornication and no fornicator shall enter the kingdom of heaven

1. Cor. 6;9

it is not clean it is sin
grab his butt and blow a kiss at him. He will turn around and take hold of you and go from there. That way you'd have just given a sign and he'll follow through.
Time to start reading Cosmopolitan magazine! There you will find many answers to your Very Important Question! Best Of Luck! Always stay "Safe" and use protection ALWAYS.
spice up your realtionship. do stuff you never done before or stuff you never thought of doing. ask him for some tips what will turn him on etc
sex isn't clean, why would you initiate it cleanly?



I always find that sticking my hand down my bf's pants is a pretty clear indicator
Nudity sends a very clear message.
just go pick up a sexy little corset lingerie thing, turn on some music, and give him a lap dance. that will deff get things rolling. have fun :P
Look real coy and cute and be very flirty!
take off his jeans