Saturday, February 18, 2012

What aspects/placements may make a person have a particularly low sex drive?

Details are most welcome.

Also - does a heavy capricorn/saturn influence indicate that it may be somewhat easier for this person to be celibate, or go for long periods without really needing sex at all?What aspects/placements may make a person have a particularly low sex drive?Maybe mars in cpricorn

Mars in Capricorn

Energy levels: high practical energies. Adequate physical and mental energies. Adequate to low emotional energies. Type of energy: predominantly practical, attainment-oriented, sustained. Energy often channelled into: planning, overcoming feelings of being unloved, organising. Strengths: respectful, ambitious, responsible. Lacks; friendliness, sense of humour, humility.



You probably started planning your career while still in your teens... or even before... because you have a tremendous amount of ambition. You like to be in charge, too. Although you have quite a bit of magnetism, you are not a particularly warm person and can be quite aloof for a long time while you are seeing if others measure up to your standards. And when angry, your coldness is enough to freeze everything in your path. You are well co-ordinated as a rule, and not averse to physical activity and hard work.

You have a strong, but often well-hidden sex drive, and can be an excellent lover once you finally trust your partners... and yourself. You tend to have very specific sexual wants and sometimes are not terribly comfortable with these. You are also very demanding of yourself in terms of putting your partner's satisfaction before your own. One of the lessons Mars in Capricorn men seem to be forced to learn at their parents' knees is how to be a good sport or a good loser. Carried into the sexual arena, this means they will generally yield quite politely and agreeably to a woman's demands. However, if this does not give satisfaction for them, they may start to be resentful and, instead of speaking up (real men are ALWAYS satisfied if they satisfy the woman), they may start seeking out women they can use for sex and sex only. Which usually only serves to compound the problem by making them feel guilty... which makes them try even harder to please their significance other at the expense of their own needs.



Women with Mars in Capricorn tend to be logical about sex. They see it as a need that can be attained. They do not generally confuse sex with love, and they tend to be "good shoppers" who know their rights. All of which sounds terribly cold and unromantic. Unromantic, maybe, but these women once committed... tend to be both very warm and very wise.What aspects/placements may make a person have a particularly low sex drive?Hmmm...I'd think that possibly Mars in an earth sign, squaring with saturn in an earth sign as well. Possibly Saturn in an air sign as well. That could be an indicator. I'm not really good with aspects, but this is my guess.What aspects/placements may make a person have a particularly low sex drive?Your question is a bit confusing. Long periods of celibacy don't necessarily equal a low sex drive. It could mean a person values quality over quantity.



Earth and fire signs are more concerned with the physical act. Water signs more with the intimacy. Air signs are more intrigued by the idea of sex. I'd have to go with air signs as the lowest sex drive. Of course, I am not talking about Sun signs. Mars is the sex planet. Mars in an air sign is the least interested in the act of sex. Talking and fantasizing about sex are often enough for them. They have large porn collections. They find the actual doing a bit distasteful. Other factors in the chart will influence this.



Look to the 8th house for clues about sex life.What aspects/placements may make a person have a particularly low sex drive?
I know for me, on average, I have a pretty high sex drive. Things like stress at home, work, or school greatly affect my sex drive, making it impossible for me to come. Also, having a poor relationship with someone that you know you care about (such as a sibling or parent) can have the same negative reaction. What I did, was started talking to others online about ideas of how to cope (just like you are doing) and it gave me tips on how to not stress as much and become more comfortable and open up in bed.

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