What happens when friends with feelings have sex?

I've been in love with a good friend for 2 1/2 years and we finally hooked up for the first time last week, leading to sex, and of course I loved it, it was everything I was waiting for. Now, we talk normally since that, and we hooked up the next night minus sex. Clearly I have feelings, but how am I supposed to know if he does too? HELP!What happens when friends with feelings have sex?nothing happens they *** n go lol

guys want sex without any strings attached that is why they always try to find horny girls, make them friends and **** them at the right time...What happens when friends with feelings have sex?
Ask the guy. You could tell him how you feel and hope he reciprocates; or ask if you're just friends with benefits (while looking sad) or if you're officially dating now (looking happy).



If no word of love or affection has been said, and no talk of dating, then it's very likely that he thinks it's friends with benefits. Unfortunately, friends with benefits is usually a kiss of death to a relationship of any kind, even friendship. So, I'd say it's pretty vital that you find out what's on his mind.What happens when friends with feelings have sex?well the only way is to talk to him. I would say its pretty clear that he has feelings for you too because he knew you for so long. Unless this guy is heartless he's not just going to ruin your friendship after 2 and a half years. I believe that guys and girls are pretty much destined to have feelings for each other if there really good friends for a long time but thats just me. SO anyways text him, call him, anything. GOOD LUCK!
Honestly, talk to him about it. You'll probably regret it if you don't. And there's probably a good chance he feels the same way. In my opinion, as a guy, you don't have sex with female friends you don't have feelings for, out of fear of hurting the friendship. Good luckWhat happens when friends with feelings have sex?I would suggest talking to him. Clearly if he had sex with you he is one of two things a big jerk or he really has feelings for you.



I hope for your sake he actually wants to pursue a relationship.



ps. Sex should be for after marriage! Save your self it is worth it.What happens when friends with feelings have sex?
he probably does, so just talk to him about it

AND if you try to say that BS excuse "oh, i dont wanna ruin our friendship" i know from PERSONAL experience that thats not the case. your just afraid of getting hurt.

definately talk to him, its 100% what you need to do.
Wow, let me explain something. Guys really don't have real "friends", they just continue to hang around waiting till they can have sex with you. this is what happen in your case. Now, he got what he wanted and guess what? You are still a friend.

People gonna hate on this one, but believe it.What happens when friends with feelings have sex?
im sure he feels the exact same. if you guys have been good friends for 2 1/2 yrs then obviously if you go over the FRIEND boundary then he is probably feeling the same as you.

just bring it up, cuz u dont wanna do the whole friends with benefits and im sure he doesnt either.
Guys will never really think the same about u after u had sex. It could really get in the way of ur friendship. You should fine out right away if he loves you. If he does thats great. If he doesnt. Then he may just be preoccupied with having sex and the friendship will probably fade somewhat.
The longer you don't address what happen the more you have insinuated yourself to be a friend with benefits. Maybe the person feels the same. Better talk and quick before the friendship is ruined.



Good luck
ask him if he has feelings for you. I don't personally know this guy, so I don't really know his intentions. But if you guys are starting to hook up regularly, then I would ask him what he's trying to accomplish
just tell him, most likely he has feelings for you too, and he is equally nervous about telling you.
just tell him!!!