How often should a married couple have sex?

Man-46 Woman-45 Married for 3 yrs been together for 4. Should this marriage be sex starved already? How often does a married couple at this age group have sex?How often should a married couple have sex?I think it differs from couple to couple based on work, kids, stress and so forth.

I am 46 and my husband is 48...we make love on average 3 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less depending what is going on in our lives.How often should a married couple have sex?
I think it is different for different people, and it is unfortunate that sex-drives aren't always matched up between partners. One person usually wants it more often than the other. I don't think there is any right or wrong answer to this one, there's no set number of times any couple should have sex. It's just whatever you are both comfortable with. And if you're not comfortable try having a conversation about it. That doesn't always work though, sometimes it can work against you and make the person withdraw even more.How often should a married couple have sex?lol.



This is how it goes.

Women are so emotionally driven and driven to compete for men's attention that when she is trying very hard to get your attention it makes her very attracted to you.

As soon as you put the ring on her... she %26gt;owns%26lt; you.

You instantly become completely uninteresting.

The sex-life rides down off the whirlwind engagement high and then she's left wondering why she doesn't "feel it" anymore.



Get out before you have kids or accept that you sex-life is over unless you have the moxie to cheat.





Women that are naturally horny want sex so they have it with their partner. They will not be "good girls"; you can't have it both ways.

There's a heap of relationship and marriage material on loving her, and cherishing her, etc... etc... which is all good to do if you want to love her, but it is not going to make her wet.

Hormones and new relationships will.
My personal view is that there should be an overlap... the number that you both like.



If you want it 3-5 times and she wants it 1-3 times, then the magic number is 3. That's where your sex drives overlap.



If she simply does not want sex enough to hit your low, then you need to leave her. She has no desire to do anything but take from you and not give. There is nothing you can do to increase her drive so don't bother trying.How often should a married couple have sex?My wife has a low sex drive so for the last 14 years we probably average sex once every 10 days! That is normal for us and it has been for our entire marriage. BUT I know some would think that is not enough!



SO, what is right for you is fine for you! What is right for us is fine for us!



We are 39 and 43



The problem is when one thinks it is okay and the other thinks it isn't! ! ! COMMUNICATION is the key!How often should a married couple have sex?
However often leaves them BOTH feeling satisfied and happy. For some that might be every day, for others every couple weeks. There is no magic number that applies to everyone.



If a marriage is sex starved, that is usually a sign that other things are amiss as well.
Maybe you're wife is going through menopause; that would affect her libido/hormones. Have you discussed the problem with your wife, maybe she isn't enjoying sex so she doesn't want to do it, ask her is there anything you could do to improve it for her. It might just be that you have different sex drives: high/low.How often should a married couple have sex?
I stopped having sex with my BF when he got boring about it. it was about 3 years in. i am supposed to be in my prime but whenever i wanted it he was too busy. which meant i was settling for when ever he wanted it. he would drink a beer and get tired and then i would only get about 5 min. foreplay and 5 min sex.

he lost interest in pursuing me and trying to get me interested. eventually i gave up. he obviously didn't care. he was also indifferent to my needs and condescending, did not resolve arguments but avoided them. I felt neglected so i stopped. he also made me feel self conscious about lingerie (said it was unnecessary). he would not make time for sex. then it would be robotic sex - it had to be planned and structured. that is just boring! i told him fantasies and he wouldn't pay any attention. i wanted to look forward to it but i was dissapointed so many times i stopped. i got tired of rejection. then we fought about it and it still never improved.
nah, it shouldn't be like that, also there is no "average" on how many time a couple has sex it just depends on the couple. maybe try new things or something to bring back that spark. this does tend to happen with some couples, %26amp; they either overcome this or just give up.
I get it 5 times a week, my husband once a week......no, wait I'm kidding. In this day and age with work, kids, errands, bills, etc....if I get it three times a week, I am a happy girl.
If you knew the answer, would it change anything, or just make you more upset? If you have an issue with your relationship, deal with it, don't use statistics to base your life on.
I imagine your previous question about your "kids" (one is an adult the other one is almost an adult) %26amp; "ex" is a good indicator of why you aren't getting laid.
it differ from one to another beside the mental and physical situation any way I think once a week is the lowest number.....
how often depends on the needs of each person. Not all men at 46 are horn dogs. Yet some are.

i would assume as much as they could
Ditto to "Toxic" above.



I doubt she is turned on by your lack of not appreciating her. Sorry.
Do you really care about what others do? Couples should have sex as much as the two of them want.
Do you mean sex with each other or sex with their swinging partners?
it varies depending on the couple
3x a week (is what my doctor prescribed.)
Once every four or five years?