How should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?

She said that she was "on facebook" and when i walked into the office, i saw her watching sex videos. These videos were very graphic, as i looked at the history and watched some of the ones she has watched. No blood or violence, just a lot of licking, sucking, and feeling. How should I punish her?How should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?I think you need to sit down with her and discuss what she saw. This will make her feel awkward but will also allow you to keep an open line of communication with her. Discuss why you should not clutter you mind with these kinds of videos, how they can skew your perception of love and how they can desensitize your ability to make good decisions. This is a very trying time in her life as she will be faced with boys who will tell her all kinds of things in order to get her to have sex with them. She needs to know that she can trust being honest with you and that you will always be there for her. Also, discuss the problems that come up with being pregnant and an unwed teen mom. I know of several girls in our area who have gotten pregnant at the young age of 16. They all come from good homes, respectable families, but I would venture to say, their moms never sat down with them and discussed the many dangers of giving in to pier sexual pressure with their boyfriends. Good luck and I hope you are able to keep open lines of communications with your daughter. Just remember, she needs you as a friend and mom now more than ever before.How should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?
Time for discussion, not punishment.



You can explain that you are cross with her for lying to you (about being on facebook).



She is at the right age to be curious, so its time to start down the path of - well this is what adults do, and its fun and pleasurable but it comes with responsibilities ie emotional attachments, risk or disease or pregnancy and social side effects eg if a jerk off boyfriend decides to share details with friends.



Punish her, and she will experiment on her own. You want her to be informed and not scared to come to you.How should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?No, I don't think so. It's so normal to be curious about what's the big deal about sex for teens. She's probably wanting information, and very embarassed to ask. She's probably mortified you even caught her. Reassure her that you know what it's like to be curious, tell her you're not upset, but say you'd prefer those videos weren't seen again. Tell her if she's curious about sex to feel free to come to you and ask. Make a commitment to your daughter today to answer those questions. Note that this is not condoning sex, but arming her with information and clearing confusion. This is a great time to have the safe sex talk. Do you know how many kids I work with that don't know you can get an STD from a bj?
You have two issues here. She lied about being on facebook, and she was watching porn. With the porn I'd sit her down and explain why it is not reality, not what a real relationship is like, and not what she's likely to encounter with her future husband. Let her know she CAN come to you with any questions she has, no matter how detailed they may be. She's about the age for her first well woman exam with a gynecologist. I know I asked my female doctor all kinds of questions about sex, things I'd have been too embarassed to discuss with my mother. She was an excellent source of information and answered my questions well.



The lying is another issue. I'd handle that separately with a grounding or taking away of cell phone, etc. for a period of time to let her know it won't be tolerated. I would put a family friendly filter on the computer and put it in a public place like the living room or the kitchen where she can't avoid having others see what's on the screen. Nothing like a little public surveillance to keep you honest!How should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?You don't or shouldn't.

You'll make it worse.

Try making light of the whole thing.

Understand her age. 15 is when the hormones kick in.

So, quite normal and also, looking at something she shouldn't be

looking at is also quite normal. "The forbidden fruit", smoking, drinking, pornography are

all things we, as kids did or wanted to do( if we had the chance).

However we had no computers back then so porn was hard to get outside of Playboy mag.

So we did the smoking , drinking and drugs.



I would say she's quite normal.

But talking is the way to go.

Don't lose your cool. No punishments for that.How should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?
Maybe you should talk to her instead of punishing her natural urges and oppressing it even further. That's what's wrong with people today.



What you should punish her for is the possibility of screwing up the computer via spyware and potential viruses associated with those sites.
Punishing her will only make her sneak better next time. She's curious, she's 15.

Instead try having a talk with her and discuss her interest in sex and guide her towards a healthy way of thinking.

Maybe teach her that women in those videos do not reflect how women are...etc...she's young and impressionable so what you say will have an effect on her development, how she sees herself as well as her self esteemHow should I punish my 15 year old daughter for watching sex videos?
You want to punish her for being naturally curious? Doesn't seem right to me. It's a natural thing to be curious at her age about that kind of stuff. Instead of punishing her you should talk to her about sex and then maybe she wouldn't go looking on the internet to find out about it.
I don't think you should punish her as such.

Coz, if she wants to watch them, she's gonna watch them.

You should just talk to her, and let her know that you don't like it, and explain to her why you think it's unhealthy.

Try encourage her to keep busy doing other things instead.

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Why should you punish her for something every teenager in the world wonders about. I mean it pretty natural for a 15 year old( girl or boy) to be curios about sex. If you punish her she going to find out another way that may not be as ... well safe. You catch my drift.
Big mistake.



Punishing her wont do anything. It will make her more interested and would want her to do it.



You might of wanted to wait longer for the talk, big mistake.



You never know WHY she did that. A sex-ed class, or a life lesson, why NOT to do it.

Just dont punish her, it may affect her life!
you don't, do you not want to have grandkids? Making them think sex is wrong would lead them to have self-esteem issues, sounds weird but people who are restricted in their younger years take longer to develop relationships. just leave it alone, imo.
you shouldnt. girls are girls there just curious. just tell her not to do it again. i used to do it and my mom walked in and she didnt punish me she had a little talk with me. you should talk to her about why you shouldnt watch that stuff.
Why should you punish her at all? Why not talk to her about why you think this is inappropriate and why she likes to do it? Perhaps you should examine why you don't like to look at this type of material too.
Give her a vibrator and a box of condoms and tell her not to get pregnant. That's all you can do. Remember, teens always rebel.
It's normal for 15 year old hormonal teenagers to watch pornographic videos. It's better than the alternative of her going out and having sex with real live people.
She probably wants to know how to do some things in case she has sex...



but just give her the sex talk. and ask y she watched em. i bet shes curious.
If you punish her she will think she did something wrong, and she didn't. Sex is not wrong or bad. Just explain to her what ou think is appropriate.
Probably just curious



Maybe just talk to her and see if she has any questions about the...concept...



As far as punishment goes, I think maybe just put some sort of parental restrictions on it or take her computer away for a few days :/
woah fuc* thats not good...you really do need to punish her. ground her,no computer,no t.v.,no bf if so and SO MUCH MORE :/
Hi Kelsey: Your little girl is gowing up. Do not punish her. Talk to her. It is very important here.

Talk to her. She does not need abuse from any one. I
First you need to find out why she was watching videos then from there punish her or talk her accordingly
that was probably the history u forgot to delete the day before...tsk tsk tsk
Don't porn videos rock.
no
give her a spanking and put it on youtube
OMG... okay don't give into her. First of all, disconnect her internet. Check her mobile phone or media player and her PC which might have downloaded porn. Then don't let her go out with her friends or anything fun for AT LEAST one month. DON'T GIVE INTO HER or she won't learn.
sit her down in front of your whole family

and make her watch 2 girls 1 cup

hehe

but seriously dont punish her .. shes just curies , if you do she might be scared for life and u never know

she might end up being a sex freak or the total opposite
Don't let her use the computer without you in the room until you can install parental control software.