Thursday, February 2, 2012

Is asking for sex 1x a day too much for a military husband to handle?

He works 16 hour night shifts, on a diet, and is very depressed due to being a military doctor surrounded by the death.



Am I being inconsiderate to ask for sex given the circumstances?Is asking for sex 1x a day too much for a military husband to handle?did you serve the salad on your titties like i told you?Is asking for sex 1x a day too much for a military husband to handle?Hi sweety, I know how you feel. My husbands in the Military as an infantry soldier and works about the same hours 6 times a week so i know it may feel a little inconsiderate to ask for sex when all he may want to do is sleep. How about when he gets home from work meet him in the shower, and help him relax while still getting what you want. "help" him clean off, and hop in with him =) what i do is offer him a sensual massage. try it both naked and see if he is willing to relax and calm down and if done naked he should be more then willing to give you sex a little more. Also try going on top more, so he can relax and not have to work while still giving you what you want. it's a win win and then maybe on the weekends he can go back on top. My husband and I find that sex that slips into lunch break- or right before dinner are the best times to do it =) hope it helps. Ps to answer question directly x1 isnt the worst thing to ask for but you have to work at it to make both parties happy without asking too much from eachother. if you are really worried try 5 times a week. that way in the middle or after a really long stressful day t doesn't need to turn into sex and maybe just spoil him with a massage, oral or something that is just for him so maybe he would give you sex the night after because of how much you've been spoiling him lately =)Is asking for sex 1x a day too much for a military husband to handle?I think expecting him to be on and ready for you every day is too much for anyone, regardless of their profession. He's not a machine! Try to be understanding, don't pressure him, and be there to listen to him. Rub his shoulders and his feet, make him hearty, healthy meals, and put on something silly while you eat, like South Park or King of the Hill.



I think 3 to 4 times per week is healthy and reasonable. If you need more sexual attention, consider giving yourself a hand on the "off" days. :)Is asking for sex 1x a day too much for a military husband to handle?
id go with 3-4 times a week at most given his schedule and profession

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