How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?

Our relationship is on the edge and suddenly she thinks sex is disgusting and stuff. She said she doesn't want it for a LONG time. Could this just be a phaze? Why would she not want something she used to enjoy?How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?Thats interesting...I don't think it's a phase. She's obviously feeling some powerful emotions to make that kind of break! It sounds terrible but perhaps it's sex with you that's the problem, i know if i've fought with my boyfriend i really dont feel like having sex with him no matter how sexual i am as a person.



You need to sit her down and ask her why she isn't interested in sex anymore. Does she not even masturbate? It may be problems with your relationship that is halting your sex life, and once you work them out the attraction/sex should come back with it.How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?
make her want it by making out with her and stuff and foreplay. she might say she doesn't want it but if you can kiss her right and say the right things to her im sure she would change her mind.How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?Something's up. She may be angry with you. The break-up kind of angry. See if you can figure out what's wrong, at this point she may not tell you. And at this point it may be too late to fix it. But if you want to stay together, you'd better try. And do it soon.
Not to sound harsh but she either doesn't like you anymore (or is starting not to) or is bored with the relationship or both.

I had this problem w/my boyfriend... I am too attached to break up but for some reason for the past year sex w/him has repulsed me. I'm still trying to figure it out but I just don't feel as attracted to him as I used to. Also, I've lost some self esteem in the sex department and I blame him.

I would try talking to her, and I think YOU should initiate the conversation because I've tried resolving this w/my boyfriend and he just gets all defensive and insecure... try to be open with whatever she says and don't take it personally, even though it may sound personal. How can this type of talk not??

In my case, I can't even say for sure if it's cuz I'm unattracted to him and want to break up or if it really is that I've just become shy over time due to some remarks he's made "innocently"... I'm just saying to give you some ideas as to why she may be acting this way.

Anyway the best way to solve any problem is through discussion.



Good luck.How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?well first, did your sex life with your gf used to be good? like were u having sex regularly and were you both enjoying it



i know you may not want to hear this but one reason she may not want to be intimate with you is because shes being intimate with someone else. talk to her and see how she reacts when you question her.How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?
maybe she is angry with you or dont feel comfortable with you or something

ask her

she will probaly understand...


I don't mean to be a jerk, but did you gain weight or something? A lot of times girls will be turned off by those types of changes. Another possibility for her turning cold like that is that she's found someone else to warm up to. You should ask her directly what the honest reason is, and let her know that you can take it.How do I deal with my girlfriend suddenly just stopping sex between us?
She is either cheating or is not attracted to you anymore. TRUST ME I went through it with my ex wife. She had every excuse in the book not to but the truth was when we became seperated then divorced she open her legs wide! Good Luck!
Just be level headed and communicate. Choose a time that both of you are free and willing to trade barbs. Be honest and set a condition before hand, that you will forgive each other. Go over preferences and what inspires both of you. If it doesn't work, seek professional help. Does prayer matter to you guys? It can also resolve a lot.
I don't know the girl so i cant tell you how she is feeling or why she is acting this way. the best advice i can give you is to Be romantic. make her feel loved. maybe her self confidence is down and she mighttneedd a boost. make her feel pretty. it could also be she might be bored with the sex. try different things, different places, Maybe talk her into doing some Role playing. Oh and if your rushing into sex to quick that could be turning her offf. a woman takes longer to get in the mood. of course a man gets turned on instantly at the thought of sex. woman are different, they have to warm up to it. maybe you could try Foreplay a little longer. kissing and cuddling, Oral maybe. massages are always GOOD!



i hope I've helped.. god luck and don't give up on her ok?
maybe shes just tired of it. she wants love from you not sex from you probably