When I was single, and desperate for female attention, I looked for girls to date on an online dating service. This was 8 years ago. I met a girl who seemed attractive online, but in real life, was very below average. But I wasn't picky back then. She used to complain about how unattractive she was, and how very attractive her sister was, and how unfair it was that her sister could get guys anytime she wanted, and she could barely get one, which was me.
I didn't realize I was at least of average attraction back then and she was totally into me. Point is she was willing to have sex with me as soon as we met in person. She was desperate for some physical attention, and hoped I would give it to her. I then, at that moment, realized what my standards were, and she was equal to the screwed up nerdy guy who desperately begs girls for sex. Only she was doing that to me.
She wanted sex out of loneliness. She just wanted to be touched, to feel another human beings flesh against hers. To be physically loved and caressed. People who don't have that at ALL in there lives will sometimes do almost anything for it, and she was willing to do that with me, and she didn't even really know me. I could have done that with her, but it felt wrong, so I looked for a girl who really liked me for me, not because she was desperate for affection no matter where it came from. (which is what she basically told me.)
So it's sometimes more than just loneliness. The awesome feeling of being touched, caressed, kissed, and rubbed by someone else with pure affection is a VERY powerful feeling. And not everyone is priviledged enough to obtain it easily, or at all.What justifies having sex out of loneliness?No prob :)
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What justifies having sex out of loneliness?lonliness justifies having sex or paying for it
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